Friday, December 30, 2005

With or Without U2


On Saturday November 19 of 2005, one of my biggest dreams was about to come true. It was about 12:00 in the afternoon and we had just taken our spots in line outside of the Phillips Arena in downtown Atlanta Georgia. After weeks of scavenging on internet fansites and classified ads, I finally scored 2 general admission floor tickets to see my favorite band, U2, come and play Atlanta on the third leg of their "Vertigo" world tour.
My dream started much earlier during a very formative summer vacation between my eighth and ninth grade years in high school. That's when I was introduced to some of the music that would see me through as I established my own identity and would help me to reminisce about those times in the years that would follow. I remember that particular summer very well because that was the time that my parents began to loosen the reigns as I was feeling out my independence and trying to figure out who exactly Matthew John Griffin was. I owe a lot to my youth leader at that time because he helped me to carve out an identity for myself and helped to foster a relationship with friends that I remain close with even today.
I also remember that he had enlisted the help of a summer youth intern who would take small groups of us out on weekend getaways to the mountians near Brevard North Carolina, which is still one of my favorite places in my known world. We looked up to him as the arch-typical cool dude. Had three things going for him that we hoped to have going for us someday- He was in college, he had a pretty girl friend, and he had a car. He'd used to call up three or four of us boys, our moms would drop us off at the church, and as soon as we pulled out of the parking lot, he'd reach under his seat and pull out the most voluminous CD collection I may have ever seen, to date.
I can remember him always slipping one particular disk into his CD player as he pulled out a little rusty old harmonica from the ash try beside him. I remember he'd skip though about 6 or 7 tracks on the CD until a song popped up that started with a driving bass drum beat and led into the wailing of a harmonica, with which he would play along with, albeit in a different key. That song was "Trip Through Your Wires" on the Joshua tree album by U2. He'd always go on and on about what a great band U2 was and what a great show they put on. We'd spin that and other essential U2 albums over and over the whole way though the mountains.
I can still smell the vibrant scent of freedom in the lush summer woodlands of western North Carolina when I hear the U2 favorite, "Where the Streets Have No Names". I must have gone out and bought that album shortly after that summer ended and I still call the Joshua Tree my favorite album. In the years following that summer, U2 toured the area two more times with the "Pop" tour, which my parents forbade me from attending, and the "Elevation" tour, which unfortunately made its rounds while I was in college trying to make ten dollar bills stretch out for two weeks at a time.
In late 2004, U2 finally anounced the dates for its next tour, entitled "Vertigo". Being unencumbered by parental directives, and somewhat more financially stable, I was determined to get tickets. The online scalping industry snapped up most of the tickets before you could blink but I was determined that I could find the tickets I wanted with enough dilligence. Sure enough, I found my tickets, and there we were in Atlanta, about to see the show.
Most of my readers already know the story of our trip to Atlanta to see U2. I believe Olivia wrote about the experience in a previous blog. In summary, we waited in line all day outside if the Phillips Arena, only to be told when we finally got to the front door that we had tickets for the previous night's show. We were sent to the other side of the arena where we waited in line at the box office for another 3 hours, hoping in vain for one more chance to get a pair of tickets there happened to be a last minute ticket drop. I have to say that as heartbroken as we were, it was a positive experience for me. If nothing else, it happened to be a "Beautiful Day" outside that day and I enjoyed spending good quality time with my wife. We got to meet some really cool individuals and I had a thoroughly good time waiting in line with all those other people with whom I had something in common.
Needless to say, it was a long somber ride home that evening. All I remember saying was "Olivia, we are going to see U2 before the end of this tour." The good news was that U2 was scheduled to play in Charlotte on December 12. The bad news was that it took me 6 months of solid searching to find the tickets that I did for Atlanta, and we now had less than one month to find tickets for the Charlotte show. One week before the show, I found a pair of tickets way up in the upper stratosphere of the Charlotte arena. Dejected, but undetered, I purchased these tickets and continued my search for a pair of General Admission tickets that would give us the chance to be on the front row. I was about to call off my search when one ad caught my eye: "2 General Admission tickets, face value, Seeking buyer in Greenville SC". Olivia can attest that I almost knocked the ceiling out and went right throught the roof. We got the tickets and we were on our way to Charlotte!
So, with the dream resumed, there we were again, outside of a downtown arena, waiting to see my favorite band, U2. The only difference was that instead of a "Beautiful Day", it became a "Dirty Day", with temperatures hovering around 45 degrees and clouds rolling in. By the time night had fallen, a driving rain had overtaken us. I must say that our trials definately enhanced the experience.
The doors ahead of us finally opened at around 5:30 and the line started inching forward. My heart was rushing as we approached the ticket scanner. Although we had thoroughly checked our tickets this time, there was an air of anxious uncertainty that made my whole body tense as noise of the scanner beeping grew more audible as the line drew closer. When he finally had my ticket in his hand as he scanned it, the world stopped....beep beep beep...."Go ahead"....WHEW!!! We made it in! Olivia and I were in a state of absolute elation just to have made it past the threshhold of the door to the Charlotte Arena! As we made our way to into the arena, I remember just wanting to stand there and take it all in but we literally had to rush into the arena, down stairs, and across the arena floor in order to secure an optimal viewing location- which we did.
We situated ourselves right up against the small security gate that divides the stage from the crowd. We were slightly to the left of center stage. The stage set up was unique. On one end of the arena sits U2's main stage. A large eliptical "track" runs around the stage and encircles about 1/3 of the arena. The band members are known to spend alot of time performing and sprinting around the whole track so that they can be as close to as many of the fans as they can be. Once in the arena, we had to stay put, so as not to risk loosing our prime viewing location. We had to wait for another 2 hours before the opening band was due to start. The people around us were cool. There was a very large man beside me who had seen U2 in Ireland, the group beside us were all from greenville, and the lady's behind us were very drunk and insisting that they belonged in front of us (they fought for our coveted positions all night and recieved more that a few harsh elbow nudges in the side for their efforts).
The opening band was called Institute. I'll just say that U2 did not have a terribly hard act to follow. Institute was led by Gavin Rosdale, the former lead singer of the popular mid-90's rock group, "Bush". They didn't do a bad job and it was cool to see Gavin, as he really is a good performer, but I wasn't terribly inspired. Once they finished up, we waited for another hour while U2's stage crew set everthing up. I thought it was particularly interesting to watch the technicians tune the guitars. As the familiar house music was playing on the PA, a song began to play that I was not familiar with. This song was called "Wake Up" by the band "Arcade Fire". When this song began to play over the PA, the crowd erupted. I found out that this is the song played just before U2 comes on stage.

As the song drew to a close, the lights went dim, and a voice came over the PA, announceing "everyone........everyone...........
EVERYONE!!!................EVERYONE!!!" I remember that. At that point, out of the shadows on the main stage, I saw the sillouettes of Adam Clayton on bass, Larry Mullen on the drum kit, and of course, Edge on lead guitar. Edge was picking out a nebulous tune on his guitar that he eventually molded into the introduction to the song "City of Blinding Lights" as Bono appeared directly in front of us! The light show began as confetti rained down on the crowd.
I could go on and wax eloquent for long time and talk about each song, and every emotion, but I'll suffice it to say that it exceeded my highest expectations in every way. They ended the show with the song "40", which is derived from Psalm 40 in the bible: "You lifted me up out of the pit, out of the miry clay. You set my feet upon a rock and made my foot steps firm."

It was an absolutely inspiring show, I bought a T-shirt for myself and Olivia and we drove on back to greenville after enjoying a wonderful meal at the Waffle House in Gastonia. and I can't wait for them to release their next album, as I already have my bells on for the next show. Thank you for spending your hard earned time reading this post. I really don't expect that many people have made it this far, but it would have been hard for me to do justice to all of my exitement about this event with anything much shorter.
If you have made it this far, I really appreciate your time. I wanted to give this piece of photojournalism as detailed an account as I could because its so easy to simply say, "Oh the U2 show? It was great!". Even though we really mean it when we say we had a great time, this was a great way for me to flesh those words out and express all the things I wanted to, so that if you really care, you can take the time to find out just how "great" it was!

Thanks!
Matt.

Tuesday, December 13, 2005

My Brother's thoughts

Hey you guys, check out JM's blog. His most recent post is hysterical! Oh and we made it to U2 last night. We will be posting all about that soon. Matt has already claimed his place to do that post. He's so funny. :)

Saturday, December 10, 2005

Matt's Bird House


Hello,
This is Matt. I am responsible for shooting this very pastoral photograph of a birdhouse in a field not far Brevard North Carolina, one of my very favorite places in the world. Although she is a very accomplished and discerning photographer in her own right, my wife Olivia has decided that this photograph is not blog-worthy. I am rather proud of my picture of this humble birdhouse so I decided to sneak into the computer room late one night and post this picture on my own. I hope all of you out there on the world wide web enjoy my work.

Thank you for viewing!

Country Roads





Brooke, I know you will appreciate these pictures since the mountains are not out your backdoor anymore. Matt and I were in Brevard the other day and I of course had my camera and was dying to find some good shots. Well, we were just driving along and couldn't find a view without those stupid powerlines and then Matt just took this random turn. (he's good at stuff like that) Anyway, around the bend from this turn was this beautiful field with these gorgeous mountains in the background. The sky was magnificant. I hope yall enjoy. Let me know what you think.

Christmas Family Shoot





Gosh it feels like I haven't blogged in forever. We've been so busy lately. So this weekend I've just been relaxing; if mopping the floor, stubbing the bathroom, vaccuming, and doing laundry is considered relaxing. Oh well, it's all finished now. Anyway, last weekend I did a photo shoot with this couple that I work with and his kids. They are so cute. Let me know what yall think.

Thursday, December 01, 2005

John Mark's blog

So if any of you understand my brother's sense of humor, then you will enjoy his blog. I personally couldn't stop laughing. I'm sure he will appreciate any of your comments. :) I put a link to his blog to the left. JM, I enjoyed to talking to you tonight. I miss you terribly and can't wait to see you for Christmas. Love you!

Wednesday, November 30, 2005

Photo Shoot





I finally had my first photo shoot! It was so fun. This is Katie and Joe and I'm actually in their wedding. They are friend's of mine and Matt's from church. They made it very easy to take pics of because they're such a good looking couple anyway. These are some of my favorites from the shoot. They're not sure which one they're going to use for the engagement picture at the wedding. I'm also doing her portrait. Oh and I finally have my first wedding booked for March 4th. I'm so excited! This is such a dream for me. Boring banker by day and creative photographer by night. Let me know what yall think. I have some more of my favorites posted on my gallery.

Thursday, November 24, 2005

Turkey Day Extravaganza!





So I decided that this year Matt and I would offer to have Thanksgiving at our house since we always have it at his mother's house and this year Grandma (her mother) is really sick. I wanted this to be an unstressful time for my mother inlaw and her sister (Aunt Bonnie) since they always do the cooking. Anyway, I was sure that I was somehow going to make a disaster out of it, but God was with us and everything turned out wonderful. My little casa held up just fine and everyone had a blast. This of course could not have been completed without the cooking expertise of my wonderful Mother, who came up the night before just to asist in my very first turkey cooking.

Here are some pics from our fun filled day with the fam. Most of these pics are of Matt's family. Since mine is so spread out, it was just my mom who came up. The little one is the newest addition to the family. His name is Asher. He was a wonderful baby and hardly made a peep for how much he got tossed around. Hope you all enjoyed Turkey Day as much as we did. Sara and Melissa, if you want to comment on anything you can email me at o_luv@hotmail.com since you don't have a blog yet. Love you all and talk with you soon!! Oh and check out Liv's Gallery to see more pics from today.

Sunday, November 20, 2005

A Sad Sad Story

So Matt and I recently have been spending a lot of time looking for U2 tickets for the Atlanta show. I saw them back in 01 with Laura and some other kids, Matt has never seen them and they're his favorite band. He has every album/CD and we listen to them all the time. Anyway, we found a sweet lady that sold hers to us for face value, which is unheard of. We couldn't find any that were less than $200 and we only paid $50 for ours and they were on the floor.

So Saturday morning we got up early and headed down to Atlanta to get in line to be one of the first people to get on the floor and get a spot. We got there at noon and someone was there marking everyone's hand with a number for your place in line. I was 231 and Matt was 230. We were all set. We waited all day and met really cool fans and Matt and I had the best time.

Finally it was time to get in line. We were sooooo excited. You could just feel the crowd's excitment. Everyone loved this band as much as we do, if not more. So we finally get up to the line and they scan our tickets to go in and the scanner made a funny sound. The lady looked at our ticket and said, "these are for last night's show, you'll have to leave." I immediately threw my face in my hands and began to sob. We were so humiliated and shocked. In our excitment we had never checked the date!! We tried desparately to find tickets from the radio stations set up out side. Finally we waited in line for another ticket release, as U2 does at every show. In that line we were numbers 20 and 21, but when the tickets came available some scalpers at the front of the line bought most of them and were selling them for a least $250 a piece.

So we came home with our tails between our legs. We are determined to find tickets for Charlotte in December. The good thing is we're not out any money because Bank of America paid me $100 to drive to Columbia for a meeting, so we have our money back. By the way, please DO NOT PICK ON US about this one. We're so sad it would really hurt our feelings. Oh and I did do this back in college for a Phish show I went to with Allison. I bought tickets for the wrong night, but we were still able to go in. Not for a sold out U2 show though. I'm sure we'll look back and laugh one day, but it's just so hard to get tickets for a show.

Anyway, that is my sad story. :(

Monday, November 07, 2005

Before the Game





Before the Clemson game we all went to see Allison's brother and his wife and their two little girls. Of course I couldn't resist. Here are a few shots from that fun time. Isabella is the older one and Elissa is the younger. Leah, if I spelled their names wrong let me know. I'm not the best at that.

More Home Coming Pics


Home Coming



This past Saturday Allison, Chad, Matt and I went to the Clemson/Duke game together. It was so awesome and very sad that is was the only game Matt and I have gone to and will go to all season. I still say my blood is orange. Honestly, it wasn't the same without Laura and Brooke there to bring on the extra fun, but we still had a blast!

Throughout the day I had constant reminicsings of our many walks from the gheto house to the stadium and of the many game days I had to work at the bagel shop and then come meet you guys on the hill. I love my life now and wouldn't change it for anything, but I do miss being with everyone at Clemson. If anyone wants to share any fun stories in the comments, I would love to hear them.

These pics should take you back. I hope you guys enjoy!! Blogger is being bad so is these couple of pics post then I'll do some more. I've tried three times tonight already.

Tuesday, November 01, 2005

the lazy girl



Not too much going on right now, but I got this fun shot of Kenah being herself. Don't let her fool you, the first smell of food or trick or treaters and she is back to life. Actually this pic was taken after our little visitors so I imagine she's either worn out or being lazy. Well, Matt is trying to sell his downhill bike from this past season. Any takers?? It's only $2700... This shot with Kenah and the bike was taken after a long session of Matt's maticulousness trying to get every possible angle of that danged bike for the internet postings. He had me in all kinds of positions making sure to get every angle. Boys are so funny with their toys.

Monday, October 31, 2005

beautiful bride







Well, my dear friend Katie Spears from church is getting married. Her husband to be is Joe and he is awesome! Let me add that her ring is quit beautiful. Well, Katie asked me to be in her wedding and I am so excited. Anyone that knows me understands that all I need is an excuse to get dressed up and I'm there. Sometimes I can be such a girl, but honestly Katie is going to be so amazing on her day and I'm just honored she thought of me to share it with her. These pics are from our adventure to David's Bridal where we had way too much fun. These are some of the dresses she tried on and I was there with the camera of course. I believe it's an extension of my body now. Anyway, hope you all enjoy. Oh, and now I will have 3 friends with a June anniversary. Katie will be June 16th and joining Laura for June 25th and Carrie for June 12th. Cool stuff!

Sunday, October 30, 2005

Trip to the Fair





Recently, Matt and I went to the Anderson County Fair with Allison and her new man Chad, who is quite wonderful I might add. The Carnies frecked Matt out a tad. I don't think he's ever experienced a fair the way Allison and I did growing up going to the State Fair in Columbia. Anyway, we had a great time with Chad and Allison. It's great to have another couple to do fun stuff with. Here are some pics from that adventure.

Saturday, October 29, 2005


Ok, I'm not sure what happened, but I believe this blog thing is working now. Here's a recent pic of Matt and I on our anniversary trip to Savannah. If this works then I'll do much more.

Savannah Trip
















Well, we've celebrated our first anniversary. Honestly, it feels like Matt has just always been here. Very comforting. I love being married. Anyway, here are some fun pics from our trip. We also went out to Tybee Island, which I highly recommend. Matt and I got to do some seakyaking for free. There were some training would be instructors who needed some people to be their fake students. Since it was my first time in the water EVER, you can imagine my demise. Anyway, I was a trooper and if you don't believe me just ask Matt. Ok, will blog again soon. :)